Lesbian thinking bi...?

every since i was young i knew i liked females only never liked guys and i a dress boyish and i'm sexy pretty. when i turned 15 i came out the closet and told my mom i was a lesbian.

but now i am older now and i seen this new dude at my work and hes coo real cool and hes very very attractive like he dress to impress and hes personality is nothing like any other boring looking dogging ugly mean begging to get some guy he got long hair hazel eyes and i think i like him. none of my gay friends know this or my girl and they never will lol can someone help me with this im STUCK this is something i need help with?

Lesbian thinking bi...?

Does it feel like cheating or a crush? Maybe you are just curious, nothing wrong with that persay. Try being friends but if you are in a LTR, think about her feelings. Just be honest with yourself and your feelings...give it time. My advice is to not leave a trail of hurt on your way to a full life. If he is your first male encounter, what would his reaction be to him finding out you're gay? Something to consider.

Lesbian thinking bi...?

Here's the thing.

Regardless of his gender, you're apparently in a relationship. So you're essentially asking us whether it's ok to cheat, but you're masking it as a sexual orientation question.

That is low. Very low.

Lesbian thinking bi...?

Well, feelings are feelings but you are in a relationship. If you have never felt like this before about a man chances are that this one is just the man that has that appeal for YOU! Like when many woman come to realize that they like another woman some are faced with many tasking questions...this is no different. Over time you may find after talking with him and hanging out that you two are just close and thats that....However if feelings inside you feel so alive and your girlfriend has not had that sort of affect on you...then you may want to sit down and talk to her first..... If she is a great part of your life she should be able to be your supporter.

Godd luck