Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Why don't men give me a chance?

Today I went outside and then people were staring at me and then one guy was like walking in front of me back and forth and then he smiled at me. So I followed all your advice and I smiled back, but then that's it. He did nothing. Some guys just went up to my face and give me a nasty look and say "sexy", but no I don't want those men. Then another man who was decent stared at me for so long and I stared back, and he was gonna approach me and then he decided to go back and left. Then this man who was like 40ish is the one who went up to me and told me oh you're so beautiful i wanna squeeze you, Okay I am 18. So the people who are like my age or a little bit older than me [18 - 25] won't approach me, but the one who's almost my parents' age will? Can you all men help me? What more must I do?



I don't have a pic but people tell me I look like the girl on the left and I dress like her too, my hair is also like that but darker.



http://img89.imageshack.us/img89/4544/ph...



Why don't men give me a chance?

If u want to marry a decent man..



then get into some activities.. like church.. bowling league, or volunteer at a hosp or something.. don't wait for them to walk up and knock on ur door..



Get out there and take the world on..



good luck..



Why don't men give me a chance?

I really wish i had the answers. for one how long has this been going on? 2/ some times we have to make the first move. the same thinghappend to me all the men my age never even looked my way. but the older men did. I ended up dating afew older men and a few younger men. I found the younger men did not know what they want and the older men do.



I have now been in a 5 year relationship with a guy twice my age. my life is soo much better as he knows what he wants out of life and i know i have that stability of thefact that he has been there and done that. And that helps a relationship from straying.

Looking at other womens pictures at 39 weeks pregnant.They are glowing and beautiful.Why am I ugly a

I feel fat and ugly and am tired of my maternity clothes and am not buying new ones now. I spill food when I eat and my cheeks are even chubbier. I used to be so pretty and now I a fat and ugly and not at all glowing or sexy. I have gained 65 lbs and look awful. Even my makeup doesn't stick to my face anymore (maybe because I sweat all the time now)... My hair is flat and straight and I just don't have any prettiness left. How can those pictures online of those girls at 39 weeks look so nice??? Some of them have these big bellies, but they still look good? I dont' even try to 'doll' up anymore. I do basic makeup and a pony tail.. I have given up on trying to look nice, nothing works anymore....



Looking at other womens pictures at 39 weeks pregnant.They are glowing and beautiful.Why am I ugly at 39 weeks

Aww I am sure you don't look as bad as you think that you do...sometimes we as women are really hard on ourselves when it comes to our appearance..But what we see when we look in the mirror is not necessarily what everyone else sees when they look at us..



Try not to compare yourself to others especially during pregnancy. Your not being fair to yourself. Everyones body changes when they get pregnant, you are probably so used to seeing your former self that very time you look in the mirror you expect to see the person you were pre-pregnancy...



I of course can't see you but I am sure that you are still as gorgeous as you were before... even if you are a littlle heavier, you are pretty much at the end of your pregnancy and the end result will be this tiny perfect reflection of yourself...the pregnancy weight can always be lost if it makes you self-conscience...just focus on the big picture :)



And like I said before, we are our own toughest critics...try to cut yourself some slack...nothing is more beautiful then a pregnant women we all have a glow and we all are doing somethng amazing that some people would give their left arm to do.



I wish you the best...Maybe do something nice for yourself like go shoe shopping or get a pedicure or a new hair-do..that always makes me feel better ;)



Take care



Looking at other womens pictures at 39 weeks pregnant.They are glowing and beautiful.Why am I ugly at 39 weeks

according to the old wives tales what you're discribing means "IT'S A GIRL". it has been said that being pregnant with a girl "steals your beauty". CONGRATS on your upcoming blessed event



Looking at other womens pictures at 39 weeks pregnant.They are glowing and beautiful.Why am I ugly at 39 weeks

you poor dear id give yoa big hug if i could but i htink both our bellies would get in the way, the way those women look so good is they are touched up i garuntee u they dont look liek that when they wake up,



i know exactly how you feel in my first pregnancy i doubled my weight by the end i refused to leave my house cause i thought i was ugly fat gross, and im sure i can garuntee that you odnt look horrible your pregnant and thats beautifull yoru 39 weeks and thats exhausting try not to be so hard on yourself and dojt compare yourself to those overmade up computertouched up images u see in the magazines and internet.



from one pregnant women o anouther YOUR GORGEOUS



Looking at other womens pictures at 39 weeks pregnant.They are glowing and beautiful.Why am I ugly at 39 weeks

Don't feel too bad, you are almost done with the pregnancy. I feel the same way and did during my first pregnancy too. It must be something they are doing with the makeup lol, cuz mine comes right off too, you can't tell i am even wearing it after about a half an hour. Just think by this time next year you can have a beautiful baby and 65 pounds gone if you really work at it. I know after seeing picture of me I plan on sweating my butt off for the next year after this one is born...I never knew I looked like I do. Probably doesn't help that the camera adds 10 pounds huh.



Looking at other womens pictures at 39 weeks pregnant.They are glowing and beautiful.Why am I ugly at 39 weeks

because most of them are models lol. and you are your own worst critic. and you are probably swollen and sleep deprived.



Looking at other womens pictures at 39 weeks pregnant.They are glowing and beautiful.Why am I ugly at 39 weeks

The women you see are models. They are a rare breed and make every woman on earth insecure. Don't feel bad I understand completely. You are real, thank god for that.



PS. Most rich woman can get physical trainers, spa treatments, have nannys and assistants, and even get surgury. So don't feel bad.



Looking at other womens pictures at 39 weeks pregnant.They are glowing and beautiful.Why am I ugly at 39 weeks

Chickaboo, don't worry. You are blessed with having the ability of having a child. Many people are infertile in the world, and have been trying for years to get pregnant. You saw pictures online, so what? I see girls that are 39 weeks and they look really bad. ): Also, 39 weeks is a loong time. Hopefully you ate healthy, and cared for your body as well as your child.



I'm sure you looked very beautiful before you were blessed with a child. It doesn't mean you never will be. Eat right, look at your child as a blessing, and keep your head up.



Looking at other womens pictures at 39 weeks pregnant.They are glowing and beautiful.Why am I ugly at 39 weeks

90% of the models online and in magazines are PHOTOSHOPPED! That's why I don't pay attention to them. I know what you mean though. Some women feel great when they're pregnant and are glowing and everything else. Well, not me. *hugs* to you. Hope things get better. Maybe your baby is getting ready to be born! Good luck!



Looking at other womens pictures at 39 weeks pregnant.They are glowing and beautiful.Why am I ugly at 39 weeks

Oh Honey Darlin'! Where do I begin? Well first of all you know that your hormones are running wild and it's no wonder you don't know any better than to worry about looking as good as some touched up pregnant model b***ch you see in some magazine in line at the grocery store!



First of all, by nature, you have no business looking sexy right now anyway. What, are you looking for, a date? You are creating a life within your body. You have bigger fish to fry. Right now, you eat what you want, (within reason) and rest assured that you will be pretty again later. Your body's just busy right now. You have plenty of time to be pretty later. And you will be. Now go have some damn chocolate ice cream and maybe a good cry and a bubble bath. Yer doin' JUST fine!



Looking at other womens pictures at 39 weeks pregnant.They are glowing and beautiful.Why am I ugly at 39 weeks

These woman that you are seeing are called runway moms. RARE!!! Not all women look like this when they are pregnant. These women are pregnant and still have personal trainers, working them through every bit of their pregnancy. They aren't getting to sit back and enjoy having a life grow inside of them. They are working their butts off to make it look pretty. I feel sorry for them not being able to get to enjoy all the pregnancy quirks.



Looking at other womens pictures at 39 weeks pregnant.They are glowing and beautiful.Why am I ugly at 39 weeks

I remember going through that to. I remember how nasty I seemed to look to me, but I still went and made myself look good no matter I still got all the cute new clothes and everything. I got over it after a while. Its normal to feel this way and yes those girls in the pictures felt that way to. you know why they did those pictures. Because they felt nasty like you do. Come on think you cant see your feet, you are sleepy, the normal unpregnant you was fearful with gaining a little weight and look at you. You gained a mind to say hey I have to be healthy for this child because its healthy to gain the weight. You went over a hurtle that allot of women cant. You do know you can still do some excersies that will get you to be more up beat on how you really feel. Try walking more and getting into a mothers to be class and talk things out for the day. Go to the Hospital where you will be having your baby and see if they have free classes for mothers to be so you can talk about how you feel and you will see that your not alone in this. Plus after you have the baby you will have more friends that are lacking in sleep like you and missing the feelings you had when you were pregnant. I sure did that is for sure. So your bored of the being pregnant because it has been feeling like its taking way to long and you have a week left so do something while your free to. Like go get your feet done I know they will be needing it and after you have that baby it will be a while tell you can do it. Go for walks. Dont beat yourself up with this its not worth it becasue what is in your belly is really really worth all this waiting and this feeling like your not pretty anymore. You have a week that is it. So make the best of it and do something that will make you feel better. Have fun with that new baby and do something that will make you feel pretty ok.



Looking at other womens pictures at 39 weeks pregnant.They are glowing and beautiful.Why am I ugly at 39 weeks

I totally know what you are going through. I went through the same exact thing. i also gained 65 lbs with the first pregnancy. I think those pregnancy pictures where they woman looks so perfect is crap. I believe that life is full of give and take. I had a horrible pregnancy, but an easy delivery. I figure those pretty pregnancy women will have horrible deliveries...or at least not as easy as mine was (I pushed for 30 minutes....and slept through most of the labor). Maybe you are going to be blessed with an easy delivery as well. I would rather look like crap and feel no pain then to look great and want to die from the pain.



Looking at other womens pictures at 39 weeks pregnant.They are glowing and beautiful.Why am I ugly at 39 weeks

hahahaha thats cute ! i felt the saaaame way... i felt like the pregnancy glow bus had passed my stOp without even stopping for me... but people complimented me all the time... so i bought a bunch of cute dresses and white button ups to take prenatal fotos and i looove the way the pics came out. i look great altho i didnt feel great. i wanted to take more but my baby came out at 36 weeks. try doing it..... ull feel beautiful for a day and have fotos ull cherish for a lifetime



Looking at other womens pictures at 39 weeks pregnant.They are glowing and beautiful.Why am I ugly at 39 weeks

Unusual situation. You wanted this baby, Now your going to have it. My stepmom was like that around 39 - 45 weeks. Your not the only woman in the world that it has/is happening to.

I need help....with a costume, of course....?

Ok. I know that you guys are probably pretty tired of seeing the costume questions posted, but I REALLY need your help. I have posted a link to my photobucket site that has pictures of 5 dresses that I can work with. I have more but I'm not looking for them. Give me an idea of what I can be...and with what dress. I wish I could give you all 10 points for helping....but I can't. The best one gets 'em.



I'm 20 yrs of age



I've got auburn hair and bright green eyes



I'm 5'3



And no, I'm not fat. Far from it, actually.



I think that's about all you need to know. I don't want to see these two things - "Princess" or "Naked."



Something sexy but not slutty



Something creepy but not too creepy



Something original but easy



Ok, Ok. Perhaps I'm being a bit shallow.



Oh well. If you decide to gimme your best shot, thanks. If not....=(



You're a prick!!!!



I need help....with a costume, of course....?

This might be a little cheesy, but you could try the pink dress. Make yourself up to be a jilted prom date, hell bent on killing the guy who stood you up.



Wield a bloody knife or a sturdy piece of rope.



Make sure the makeup and hair looks like you've been crying, and that you're crazy.



Have fun!



I need help....with a costume, of course....?

I think you should do the blue and purple dress with some black beads, a head scarf, and a big fake snake and be a voodoo queen. If you want to get a bit creepier, you could blacken over your teeth and get slimey black lipstick.



I need help....with a costume, of course....?

you should be a dead prom chick kinda thing with the pink dress



also.. about 2yrs ago or so i went as a "drama queen" (lame i know) i took my graduation dress and put on a ribbon saying drama queen.. kinda stupid but that was the only thing i could come up with lol anyway you could do that with the pink dress.



hope i helped



I need help....with a costume, of course....?

So you won't want to be a naked princess?



Autumn fairy/woodland nymph



Greek Goddess



Highland dancer/Celtic lass



Renaissance wench



Pirate



Geisha



Goth bride/prom queen



Victorian era vampire



I need help....with a costume, of course....?

two words-



zom bie



I need help....with a costume, of course....?

maybe the one that's more *colorful* and more *sparkly* than all the other ones you can be some dancer and wear a hat with fruit on it. xD I wore one one time... it was a little heavy though. all you need is a towel and put some fruit on it.



I need help....with a costume, of course....?

Use the green sparkly dress, get some white majorette boots, stuff your bust and butt and be a Sweet Potato Queen .www.sweetpotatoqueens.com ( for the full regalia) You've got the hair for it!

Ladies would u get your hair cut really short if your husband asked you to do so because he thinks i

Nope. Only if *I* wanted it cut short.



Ladies would u get your hair cut really short if your husband asked you to do so because he thinks its sexy?

it depends how short



Ladies would u get your hair cut really short if your husband asked you to do so because he thinks its sexy?

No. I would do it if it makes me feel sexy. Tell him to go shave his balls.



Ladies would u get your hair cut really short if your husband asked you to do so because he thinks its sexy?

NO!



Ladies would u get your hair cut really short if your husband asked you to do so because he thinks its sexy?

No tell him its your hair and if he dont like it than he dont liike it. because he dont own you. you make your hair the way you want it. and if he dont like it tell him. NO



Ladies would u get your hair cut really short if your husband asked you to do so because he thinks its sexy?

no because itsmy hair and my body, you shouldnt be forced to do something you dont want to do because people can give you constructive critacism but that doesnt mean yu have to take it. if you want your hair short like that go ahead but if you dont dont force yourself



Ladies would u get your hair cut really short if your husband asked you to do so because he thinks its sexy?

My husband made a comment a few times that he would want my hair to be really short, but I've always been a long hair type of person, and I know I would go into depress mode if I cut it and do not like it, so I don't want to take the chance. I say, if you willing to take the risk then go for it, it is hair and it will grow back, but if your not, then just get a trim and call it a day.



Ladies would u get your hair cut really short if your husband asked you to do so because he thinks its sexy?

I WOULD TELL HIM TO GO FCUK HIS MOTHER....WHY WOULD YOU HAVE TO CHANGE THE WAY YOU LOOK FOR HIM...DON'T CUT YOUR HAIR! KEEP IT TRUST ME! YOU CAN FIND SOMEONE THAT LIKES YOU THE WAY YOU ARE INSIDE AND OUT . ..



GOOD LUCK



GOD BLESS YOU!



MZPURRTY =+)



Ladies would u get your hair cut really short if your husband asked you to do so because he thinks its sexy?

I am growing out my hair for my husband. I like it long, but not as long as he wants it. Go to one of the virtual makeover sites and download your picture and try different short hair cuts and show your husband. Find one that suits you. If you don't look good with short hair, maybe your husband will realize that and want ask you to cut it.



Ladies would u get your hair cut really short if your husband asked you to do so because he thinks its sexy?

It depends if he thinks it would look sexy on you or just sexy in general. If your friend said you should get it done because it would make you look sexy then you would just take it as advice and not an insult. It depends if he is advising you or just saying it for his own thrills.



Remember you are the one that will have to style it and maintain it.



Ladies would u get your hair cut really short if your husband asked you to do so because he thinks its sexy?

I would definitly cut my hair off if my man asked me.Its a one time thing and who knows I might like it too.



Ladies would u get your hair cut really short if your husband asked you to do so because he thinks its sexy?

no! it is make me feel weird if i have short hair

Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my h

it depends on how cute the guy looks lol i think spikey hair is cool :)



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

Shaved heads or NOT sexy! You should let your hair grow, but keep it really short!



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

omg yes...shaved heads are sexy...and goatees too



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

grow it out! shaved heads are NOT sexy!



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

I agree with Tammers.I love to rub a bald head



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

ditto on shaved w/ a goatee



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

im in love with shaved heads, theres just something about them keep it shaved



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

no i really do not think shaved heads are sexy at all.. i would let my hair grow if i were you.. but whatever made yo think shaved heads would be sexy...i love to play with my mans hair..i like hairy chest too..but each to our own opinion..



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

Well it depends.



A shaved head always seems to look good on people with darker skin.



If your white and if you have a good tan...yes, if you look anything like that guy of American idol who was thrown out 2 weeks ago...yes. If you've got a long face...no



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

What do you think? If you think that you look sexy with a bald head, then keep shaving your head. Me personally I think that a bald head is not for everyone, granted I have seen a few men that looked terrific with a bald head..



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

not at all; u look yuck !!



Plz grow.



Anyways u look handsome, but with hairs u'll look more gud.



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

i personally like medium length hair, but bald heads aren't bad if the person has a good shaped head... (some people have lumpy heads, and those are the people that really need to grow it out) i wouldn't consider it sexy, if you don't like hair, then just keep it really short!



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

shaved heads are soooooo not sexy - let your hair grow just not too long!



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

yes



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

It really depends on the face/head/physique of the head in question. I find thinner men look better with some hair on their head while bigger/buffer men tend to stand out more with shaved heads. From your picture, I would recommend not shaving; your head seems smaller without hair. If you had hair, it would look more proportionate to your body.



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

Not really but if you like your hair that way you should keep shaving it.



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

If you are going bald it is definitely more sexy to have a shaved head. If not, I could go either way. It is more about the face and body for me.



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

it all depends what kindda face feature you have if your face is skinny then no way! but i think you would look better with hair... at the end whatever you look comfortable with will make you look good!



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

no , keep your hair grow



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

So Sexy!! I love shaved heads! For a while I only dated guys with shaved heads for some reason there is nothing like rubbing a bald head!



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

Ah it depends - if you hair is thin, spotty, gray etc - then maybe for you bald is sexier. If you have full think locks with a tad bit of curl in them - oh then that is HOT HOT HOT and Bald is NOT Not NOt!



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

bald is sexy , shave it



Ladies do you think shaved heads are sexy or not? Should I keep shaving my head or should I let my hair grow?

VERY SEXY! My husband keeps his shaved most of the time and I love it!

Should I ask out the girl who cuts my hair...I have really fallen hard for her...she dresses on the

very slutty side, but she is really a very sweet, nice, and innocent girl...she just dresses this way like all beauticians for tips...should I go for it and ask her out.



This is very much the type of girl I like but I am afraid she will turn me down.



Should I ask out the girl who cuts my hair...I have really fallen hard for her...she dresses on the sexy and..

Go and ask her, you lose nothing if she say "no", but you may lose a date with her if you don't invite her.



Should I ask out the girl who cuts my hair...I have really fallen hard for her...she dresses on the sexy and..

Whats the worst that could happen? Ask her.



Should I ask out the girl who cuts my hair...I have really fallen hard for her...she dresses on the sexy and..

If you worry about rejection then you will never be in relationship. Ask her and if she says no. oh well



Should I ask out the girl who cuts my hair...I have really fallen hard for her...she dresses on the sexy and..

If you are a lousy tipper, forget it. People who work for tips are sensitive about such things. Otherwise, go for it - but wait until after she's done cutting your hair. That way, if she says no, you don't have to sit there for another ten minutes.



Should I ask out the girl who cuts my hair...I have really fallen hard for her...she dresses on the sexy and..

go in that saloon regularly, ,



ask her to trim only one hair each day, ,



she will also fall for u, ,



go ahead, , ,



a whole world a scissors n razors r waiting for u , , ,



better not end up shaving the whole head, , ,



goodluck anyway

I want to cut my hair but my mom said it cant be to short and i still want sexy.What hairstyle shoul

You should try messsy, choppy layers! Try this http://www.hji.co.uk/hjimages/images/qhs...



or



http://www.javno.com/slike/slike_3/r1/g2...



Good Luck!



I want to cut my hair but my mom said it cant be to short and i still want sexy.What hairstyle should i do?

short is NOT necessarily SEXY...it is NOT the rule,u know.



I want to cut my hair but my mom said it cant be to short and i still want sexy.What hairstyle should i do?

go to thehairstyler.com



upload a photo and u can try on different hairstyles it totally worked 4 me



I want to cut my hair but my mom said it cant be to short and i still want sexy.What hairstyle should i do?

Your mom is a control freak. You should be able to cut your hair any way you want. It's YOUR hair, if you want to cut it short, cut it short! Don't let your mom hold you back!



Short hair IS beautiful on women too, you know! Long hair is pretty, but short hair is sophisticated.



I want to cut my hair but my mom said it cant be to short and i still want sexy.What hairstyle should i do?

i think when u get it layered to the face and its long or atleast medium length its very sexy. but it doesnt work well for curly hair too well. layering and razor cuts are very cute/sexy. should look for some picts online.



and ya your mom should so back off,its only hair for christs sake! it does grow back,my 11yr old gets short cuts during the summer..or when ever she wants them really. like i said...its only hair.